The ability to be spontaneous in life is directly proportion to the size of your bank account
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    Most financially secure people still work full time. I suppose that in theory, they're able to quit their jobs without suffering immediate, catastrophic consequences but if they actually did that sort of thing, they wouldn't be financially secure for long.

    (In my experience, many financially secure people actually work much more than full time. I think they would be better off if they didn't because at some point time becomes more valuable than money, but they have the sort of personality that compels them to. This is often related to starting out without financial security.)

    The very rich can do crazy stuff without consequences but they're such a small part of the population that I don't think comparing oneself to them is useful.

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  • Zelenskyy said NATO or nuclear and he ain’t wrong.
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    It's a bold move but I don't see it changing the outcome of the ongoing war. If Ukraine could build long-range ballistic missiles in the near future, I think they could regain the advantage even without any nuclear warheads. Nuclear warheads would not be useful without those ballistic missiles.

    (What would happen if Ukraine did have nuclear-armed ballistic missiles but Russia refused to withdraw from Ukrainian territory? I don't foresee Ukraine actually nuking Russia, even in those circumstances.)

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  • How come people who are against abortion are in favor of the death penalty? Kind of seems like a contradicition/
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    There's no logical contradiction between believing that some people should be killed and believing that other people shouldn't be killed. You might as well ask why a soldier would shoot at his enemies but not his allies

    (I'm not picking a side in the "Are fetuses people?" debate here. They are from the point of view of the people against abortion.)

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    Anon plays shirts vs skins
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    There were showers in the locker rooms when I was in school, but the ordinary gym classes never used them. (Maybe the sports teams did?) I think I would rather have dropped out than showered naked in school.

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  • Anon wants a cute girlfriend.
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    They are blaming bad luck for their shitty personality.

    I wish I was the kind of guy who liked being social and meeting new people, but I'm not. I can force myself to do it, but I can't force myself to do it much (and I think people can tell that I would rather be going to the dentist). I didn't choose to be like this, and I didn't choose whatever inborn characteristics and childhood experiences made me end up like this. If there's a way to choose not to be like this, I haven't found it. I do think I got unlucky.

    I'm not trying to complain about my fate here. I got lucky in a lot of other ways. I'm just saying that it isn't fair to tell people that they would be happier if only they were someone else.

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  • Anon wants a cute girlfriend.
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    If we feel it’s so important to have a cute girlfriend, then should we not respect that a woman might want a cute boyfriend?

    Isn't that what anon is doing? He's lamenting that because he is neither good looking nor particularly charismatic, the women he wants to date have no good reason to date him.

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  • Anon goes on a double date
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    I'm not sure why anon is making a big deal out of that. One time when I was on a second date, the woman told me that I seemed like quite a pessimist. I said "No, if I were a pessimist, I would never stop screaming." She didn't want to see me again but I still chuckle whenever I remember it.

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  • Trump: Biden is Too Tough on Netanyahu
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    even many American Jewish people don’t like Netanyahu

    The may not like Netanyahu but they're quite alarmed by what they see on the left side of the Democratic party. If they're concerned that Harris will be influenced by the left, either due to personal sympathy or political considerations, then Trump does have some appeal since he's making it quite clear that he's definitely not like that.

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  • Why do residential skyscrapers always seem to include balconies that never get used?
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    Heh, I walk around naked with the blinds open because where I live, people would need binoculars to see me and if they choose to, their resulting suffering is their own fault. One advantage of being unattractive...

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  • Why do residential skyscrapers always seem to include balconies that never get used?
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    I think people value private outdoor space differently than public outdoor space. I don't actually have a balcony but I think I would usually prefer a private space to a public one, even if the public one was much nicer.

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  • Why do residential skyscrapers always seem to include balconies that never get used?
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    That's funny. I see all the skyscrapers around here with balconies and I get jealous, but I never thought about the fact that I almost never see people on those balconies until I read your question.

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  • Why do residential skyscrapers always seem to include balconies that never get used?
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    I wanted a balcony but the real estate agent politely implied that I couldn't afford one in the area where I was looking for housing. With that said, I can see myself using it for just an hour or two a week while the weather is nice. I like the idea of sitting out on the balcony but I expect that in practice it would be noisy out there and boring on my own.

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    What I read was that it's about 200mg per kg, so for a 70kg human that works out to 14 grams. That actually sounds remarkably high (14 grams is a lot). Did I mess up somewhere?

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  • My friends expect me to pay for things for them because I'm wealthy. Am I wrong to think they should just work harder?
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    When I was a young kid, one of the few things my mother was very strict about was her rule that I must never ask people outside the family for presents. Acting in a way that made it clear I wanted a present without explicitly saying so was forbidden too.

    She was stricter about this than about "don't bring snakes in the house" and she was not a fan of snakes.

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  • https://www.nytimes.com/2024/10/01/us/politics/tim-walz-hong-kong-tiananmen.html

    [Archive link.](https://archive.is/FXIV4#selection-4703.0-4703.69) >As recently as February, Mr. Walz said on a podcast that he had been in Hong Kong, then a British colony, “on June 4 when Tiananmen happened,” and decided to cross into mainland China to take up his teaching duties even though many people were urging him not to. >But it was not true. Mr. Walz, the Democratic vice-presidential nominee, indeed taught at a high school in China as part of a program sending American teachers abroad, but he did not actually travel to the country until August 1989. Why bother making something like this up?

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    Pretty much every major shopping website has terrible search functionality. I usually want something very specific, for example `60w dimmable e12 frosted warm led bulb`. I have not found a single shopping website that won't show me results without many of these terms in the description. I don't want to see listings that say `40w` and don't say `60w` anywhere, and it isn't hard to filter them out! Are these shopping websites bad on purpose? What's in it for them?

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    Before covid, I would be sick with a cold or flu for a total of about two weeks every year. That means I spent 4% of my time sick; one out of every 25 days. Since covid appeared, I've been wearing an N95 in crowded indoor areas whenever I reasonably can. (Obviously I can't if I'm eating something.) My main goal initially was to protect my elderly relatives, but during the last four years I have not gotten sick even once, except from my elderly relatives who didn't wear masks, got sick, and then infected me when I was caring for them. Why isn't everyone wearing N95s? Sure, it's uncomfortable, but being sick is much more uncomfortable. And then there's the fact that wearing an N95 protects *other people* and not just the wearer...

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    There appears to be no straightforward way to permanently stop Windows 11 Home from rebooting on its own after installing updates. I looked for workarounds but so far I have only found a script that has to run on a schedule to block the reboot by changing "working hours". ([Link.](https://superuser.com/questions/1843873/windows-11-seems-to-have-disabled-all-ways-to-get-around-auto-update-restarts-i)) Is that really the best that is possible?

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    I live in a 20-story building built in 1929 and I want to do some minor renovations on my apartment. I've worked on a basic modern house made of 2x4s and drywall, but I'm out of my league here. I don't even know how to hang a mirror up on the wall... If it's made of gypsum brick, can I treat it like masonry? What if it's hollow? Can lathe-and-plaster support any significant weight? Is drilling into the wall going to release some ancient evil they used as a normal construction material back then? I'd love to find a guide for how to do even the basic things in these buildings. Does anyone have recommendations?

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    I have an Intel i7-4770 CPU (from 2013) and I don't think I have ever been CPU-bound so I would rather not spend money on upgrading it. However, I want to upgrade my graphics card to a Radeon RX 7600. My motherboard supports PCIE 3.0 which the RX 7600 is fine with. Is there anything I should look out for? I'm worried that I'm missing something that will prevent me from running a 2023 video card on hardware ten years older than that. (In case anyone is curious, my current video card is a GeForce GTX 960. It has been good enough for Diablo 2 Resurrected but I don't think it will be able to handle Baldur's Gate 3.)

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    I bought a new-in-box LG V20 about 18 months ago because I was tired of phones without removable batteries and headphone jacks. However, it gets absolutely terrible reception for some reason (as in, no signal in the middle of Manhattan). Some guy had the same problem and he soldered a big antenna to his phone to fix it. I might try to do that but given how great I am at soldering, there's a good chance I'll break the phone. Should I do it? I don't want to have to buy a modern phone with a built-in battery but I can't just have a phone which doesn't work when I'm away from wi-fi...

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    Driving is the most comfortable, convenient, and fun mode of transportation. Walking and biking can be OK but only for traveling relatively short distances in good weather. Mass transit is inherently unpleasant. No matter how nice you try to make it (and most mass transit systems aren't nice) the fact of the matter is that passengers are still stuck in a crowded box with a bunch of strangers and limited to traveling to the mass transit system's destinations on the mass transit system's schedule. Compare this to getting into your own car and driving wherever you want, whenever you want... I currently live in a place too crowded for driving to be practical - I get that places like this need mass transit. But needing mass transit sucks!

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